A bit about Easter

Forcing Fosythia. Ponder the word; forcing. 

Yes, Easter is a holiday celebrating the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.  Easter eggs are a symbol of the empty tomb and the White Lily is the reverent symbol that adorns the chancel area of all Christian Churches. 

Yes, early Roman Catholics did adopt ancient Eastre spring equinox fertility rituals; the egg, the bunnies, the mere birthing of spring as a way of merging early Pagan tradition with Christ Worship. 

But does it matter?  Today, great masses of people celebrate the commercialized holiday that Easter has become. When our children were little, they got new runners, sidewalk chalk and searched for Easter eggs. We had a big meal and invited extended family to join us. 

I respect the story of Jesus Christ, I honour all great spiritual prophets, but I think I lean a little more towards the non faith-based devotions of mankind and Mother Earth.  That’s just a personal choice. 

Easter is sacred to me because we dine together, I still give my teenage kids chocolate eggs and we have come to know that spring has sprung. We no longer are close to extended family, but it's okay because we concentrate on just our family unit and how our young adults will bring new relationships to the family. Our family. 

Easter feels like the whole world has growth & potential again. We collectively can put the onslaught of the past winter and issues behind us and rejoice. This holiday is about new hope.  I do believe in a higher, divine and ethereal Spirit.  What I call it, is unimportant - what guidance it gives me is invaluable. 

 Easter is simply about rebirth.  Mine, yours, Mother Earth's & the spirit of Jesus Christ - for those who identify with it. .

 The afterlife, noetic sciences have been around for a long, long time.  Not all metaphysical phenomena is spooky.  Easter is proof that it’s quite divine, for Jesus Christ came back from the dead.

Happy Easter.  Happy New Birth.  Happy Family Time!

About Family Day in Canada

Family Day is a Canadian statuary holiday in mid February that is a perfect break for winter weary Canadians. 

The provinces vary the dates slightly with many school boards arranging for the preceding Friday to be off for students.  This extends the weekend for families with school age children. We in Ontario, usually have a long weekend with Valentine’s Day coinciding, somewhere in the mix. 

The intention is to celebrate Love. Family Love. Love of Coupledom and the families that have been born out of them. Families are as dynamic as the people that create them.  We come in all different races, genders and values. Some people work on relationships, others, not so much. “Family” is just about the commitment to love and live together in a functioning unit. 

Collecting our Family's Old Shoes ~ at our Cottage

Admittedly it’s hard not to judge. What works for one family doesn’t work for another. Generations of people tend to have the same mannerisms and habits. Chronic complaining, judgemental opinions, habitual lies and over exaggerations are clearly poor habits. Of the families that I know who are like this - it is doubtful that they are even aware that they are perceived this way. 

Keeping a family happy and healthy is hard work, so reward yourselves often and celebrate your accomplishments.  Feuds, power struggles and broken marriages destroy the original tribe, do know that sometimes a family unit doesn’t have to consist of blood relations and legal marriage.  Family is a creation of compassionate bonds and concentrated efforts to keep friendships alive. People don’t have to commit themselves to family members who do not love and support them. If it doesn’t work, it doesn't work. That’s okay. 

For family members who continually test your clan’s closeness, I strongly suggest open compassion and understanding despite immaturity and behavioural challenges. Everybody deserves to be loved, just be mindful of not being abused. 

Enjoy and appreciate your family. If you love them, chances are they will reciprocate the emotion. If they are unable to show love, it is not a reflection of you, but of the choices they have made.  All you do - is wish them well. 

A bit about Feng Shui

First, it is impossible to report just a bit about Feng Shui.   It is a much involved metaphysical study that scrutinizes your home, the land around it and the relationship each individual occupant has to the present time, the evolving time, the time the home has endured and also the way energy is permitted into the home. Chi is observed to see how it reacts to the shapes, colours, elements and design of each individual room and the pathways that are created or blocked between them. 

You cannot master Feng Shui at a weekend workshop or by reading a few books.

In Eastern Philosophy Feng Shui is also interpreted in conjunction with other kinds of luck that are characterized by astrological and heavenly influences.  Feng Shui is not... simply about hanging crystals, mirrors or other trinkets and it is not entirely about power and wealth.  

I’m certified in traditional feng shui.  I have also interviewed or have been affiliated with every major school of thought or practice. I have reported on the subject matter thru written magazine articles and television programming. Most importantly, I have lived through several feng shui audits myself. 

There is a huge population of believers. There exists great controversy in perceived rules and regulations. There are many disputes about how energy patterns ought to be identified, manipulated and dealt with. 

Nothing is absolute.  All is merely probable and then it changes. 

There are no perfect homes.  We are drawn to our homes for unknown reasons and like the children who become our offspring…. we have nominal choice should they be brilliant, disobedient or challenged in anyway. We can try our best,  but our only true choice is how we manage these circumstances and feng shui can be a coping strategy. 

A learned practitioner eventually understands that even negative energy patterns aid a person in their spiritual growth. Aggressive and overconfident chi can boost the timid. Sick and melancholy stars may influence the healer. Even destruction can be a blessing in disguise for without a catalyst, rebirth is not a possibility.  

Reporting on Feng Shui Philosophy

Like any other divination reading (like tarot/iching) feng shui is a re affirmation of the life you are already living. The worst thing a practitioner can say is “sell your house immediately!”   I believe your family members and home found you. You are the integral link. 

You cannot ever blame your house, the neighbours or God. You can however, make the best of the potential your house has to offer and learn to embrace the potential in a mature and appreciative manner.  Interestingly, you will find that if you own multiple buildings; businesses and vacation properties... you will note that energy combinations repeatedly present themselves. 

I would say that, the good inside you comes from the life you have already lived and is shaped by the acceptance of the energies you are given - but by all means, if you can identify and adjust those energies to bring yourself success and happiness then  - go right ahead - learn to support and modify energy.  Think of Feng Shui's chi identification the same way you would internal chakras and chi we unblock in acupuncture. 

Believing you can create abundance symbolically  - generally makes it so.  We can heal our selves and our homes but living, the healed life is truly a state of mind.  

Feng Shui is just one of many spiritual luck decoders.  It is custom in some cultures, a ritualistic exercise to follow with many and most certainly,  a very strong belief. 

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A bit about Traditional Christmas Foods

Serving Christmas Pulla

I’m from Northern Ontario. Rural Sudbury, as a matter of fact.  Pretty much everyone I knew was Native, Finn or French Canadian… or a combination of the the three. There were other people- but I didn’t know them. Or at least, I didn’t know them well. 

I’ve been a resident of Southern Ontario for (gasp) 39 years, been with my partner who is French Canadian for 24 years. Did I adapt all his cultural traditions from Montreal, Quebec? … NOPE.  Well, some - but it’s all about what I call mine.  I do the cooking. I am the Mom. 

Every cultural background has their traditional food - Finns have Pulla Bread. It’s yeasty and tastes of cardamom. It takes forever to make, is messy but takes up enough hours to make it a ritualistic exercise in custom and seasonal belief. Even when it dries up (as it will shortly) I feed it to the birds. That’s my seasonal custom. 

Gather Ingredients 

Let it rise

Extra Points if Kids look Finn

Divide into loaves

Dynamics of family change.  What remains? Family tradition and Christmas food. One day my children will (hopefully) remember My Pulla and Christmas meals, as I remember my Moumma’s. (Grandmother’s).

My Christmas Pulla

Glaze 

Mom shapes Christmas Tradition

It’s the end of the year, it’s cold and the grand finale is being planned and executed.  

I’m the "Mom the Matriarch" and there’s a certain awe in that revelation.  My Children are now young adults.  My own birth Mother and Mother in law do not - will not - have not been the Matriarch for the Holiday season in decades and my Partner and I, have realized that we are and always have been, the ones our offspring look upon to shape our family’s Christmas tradition. 

I didn’t always realize I was the catalyst of how our rituals, customs and holiday celebrations play out. I’ve written before about the Winter Solstice.  I truly respect the evolution of astrological and environmental changes this pivotal time brings.  I have also shared how my family has come to know Christmas. It’s about scholarly debate; traditional & commercial rituals.  

When our children were little, everything revolved around Santa, that great Spirit (I explained) who like a ghost, came into our lives to bestow gifts upon them, because he represented love and cherishing.  We invited extended members of the family that we barely saw through out the year - because it was tradition. I did that for the children… so they would know grandparents, aunts or uncles.

Santa "Ghosts" the Spirit of being Loved & Cherished

Over the years we established routine and modified it a few times, because our family dynamic -like everyone else’s - was subject to change.  What remains today for us, is celebration and commercialized gift giving on Christmas Eve and feasting on Christmas Day. Even the birds are fed special on Christmas Day.  I hope my Children have noticed that.  Some of my Partner’s French Canadian customs are honoured and some of my Finnish roots are - subtly played out throughout the season and I believe there is now a comfortable traditional compromise that pleases us all.

What Christmas has come to be, for us... is

when we spoil our children with gifts,  drink more wine than usual and put great emphasis on the traditional meal that we share. 

A bit about the Autumn season

Melancholy is the season, from warm to cold

Autumn is the outcome as summer harvests and lives unfold. 

Every Autumn we celebrate harvests and participate in life and death celebrations.  Children go back to school, back to seriousness and we all stock pile our summer traditions and outdoor belongings as we get ready to hunker down for the onslaught of winter.  

There’s a sense of ending when Fall comes. Isn’t there?  We don our snuggly woolies and venture out to enjoy the spectacular changing of the leaves.  Each September I feel older; my kids are in a higher grade, and our homestead just experienced another year of decay.

Of course I’ll be participating in many fall festivals, the life/death celebrations and the giving of thanks, but I’ll also adopt a more reflective state of mind.  Maturity? Perhaps that’s it. Acceptance? Yes, Autumn is the time of year that people come to terms with the reality that they have created. Choices, whether self imposed or forced by others- come to fruition in the autumn months. Is it any wonder that this is the time selected for government elections?  Make a choice and stick with it - 

reap what you sow. 

So with the approaching chilly nights, I myself will dispose of my porch’s summer florals and replace them with Autumn dry & preserved imitations. I will vote for the term ahead for governing parties, I will plan my thanksgiving traditions and will set aside time to remember  the death of the season, the passing of many lives and the resting nature of the earth and I'll do it from the comfort of a warmed home and comfy couch.  Does red wine not taste any smoother, than in the folds of Fall?

Autumn Years Ago/Falling Forward.  Blogger's own Children when they were wee.

A bit about Spiritual readings and the like.

It’s a broad industry.  For centuries the divinely skilled (or fraudster) has made money, traded goods, gifted, awed, shocked and advised their way into global acceptance that for the most part - there are indeed some people who can relay messages based on magic, intuition, coincidence or etherial spirt.

I believe.  I think everyone can experience the phenomena, at least once in their life.  I just don’t believe that all psychic medium/channels/spiritual advisors are 100% accurate and belong on one of the prestigious tested | certified American lists like;  www.bestamericanpsychics.com  www.globalpsychicsolutions.com       www.foreverfamilyfoundations.com  www.certifiedpsychicsociety.org 

There are no certifiable associations in Canada. Certainly they'll be many such organizations in Europe and beyond and I’m sure the tools used will be different like using the iChing, feng shui and shaministic practices.

An intuitive reading is dependent on a tool that allows the reader to to pick up subtle meanings in symbolism.  It could be cards, stones, bones or tea patterns.
Even palm reading is based on the placement of the lines we have worn into our skin.
The possibilities are endless. It isn’t the tool so much as “How” they interpret. Anyone can learn but it takes special people to not only describe the text book meaning but combine it with potential.

In my experience, 90% of the readings I have ever had- have been horribly vague. But every once and a while I can pull out a gem of recognition and yes, I can honestly say I can validate the incident. I have even been known to pull out my own tarot cards and entertain girlfriends over wine or tea. NOTE: I am not claiming to be a physic medium, neither are most of the spiritual readers out there. They are exploring their intuitive side and they are rather successful at it.

Magical people like the Long Island Medium, John Edward & Sally Morgan get clear messages from spirit. No tools required, their symbolism is brought to their minds from spirit.  These guys are the real Psychic Mediums.  Authentic psychic mediums use no tools; no tarot cards or anything else for that matter. They are evidential and they are rare.  But back to spiritual readers because they represent the majority of who we people, pay to visit for readings.

Lithomancy by Gary L. Wimmer

When a reading is bang on... it certainly is and I have come to know that you don’t need an object or tool to “feel” somebody’s energy because their words and actions can easily provide that information.

When a reading is not good.... you can sense it in the first few minutes. It sounds like a recording that could be read to anyone. I have actually experienced the blurring of sound, repeated interruptions and once when this guy was giving me a past life reading I had an intense ringing in one ear- leading me to believe I was not supposed to listen to his bull shit.

Where did that ringing come from?  Why at that moment?

I do indeed find the process of divination fascinating. I can see how it can be called guidance as sometimes we need to hear from somewhere, some kind of direction.  It’s like taking a peek within your own subconscious and deciding if it could be a probability.

A life journey menu... of sorts.  Just means you have choices.  It's fascinating.